Hi, I was banded Dec 4 2007. Dr. Ortiz was great and the office and staff was top notch, I have and will continue to recommend this procedure and Dr. to anyone and everyone..... The scar is small (if i knew how i would post a pic of mine for you), not sure about the children part i already have 4, so it wasn't an issue for me, the port is inside of your skin...i was very concerned when i went for my 1st fill but it was easy and painless..... hope this helps!!!!!