CJen

I am 7 months post-op! For the last couple weeks I have noticed a lot of port pain, especially when I try to sleep! It's almost like a stabbing feeling! I have no nausea, or anything that would make me think that I need to call my Dr. Has anyone had this pain? I really don't want to make more out of this than necessary, but I hurt! On a scale of 1-10, at times a 7-8! Thanks for reading this, and I look forward to your replys!

Thank you to everyone for their replies, I truely appreciate them! I am relieved to know that some of you have kept this a secret, and some are so confident that they choose to help people with their knowledge. Thanks again, Jen

When I decided to be banded I felt that the only people that neded know were my family, and one friend whom I trust with the world. I felt ashamed that I had allowed myself to get to the point of needing to be banded at the age of 27. Well I have lost over 60 lbs, and I have people telling me how great I look, and what did I do? I never thank them, I feel like a hypocrite, like I cheated! I just say' oh I am dieting, and exercise'. Don't get me wrong I love my band, but I hate my lies I have created. I know that some people suspect, as they have asked my Mom, she then says what I have told her to say. I just feel like I have created this mess that I will never be able to get out of, as I have lied to all my friends. The worst part is when they ask me for help, or we work out together, and they don't lose, and get sad because of it. I don't know, guess I will just have to live with this big fat elephant in the room, as I still selfishly don't want to reveal that I have been banded.

I used to get horrible Migraines, almost daily! Now rarely mostly around that time of month.

Lol! I guess I'll live with my roots showing til my hair gets healthy, my roots might be a little hard to explain. Thanks for the advice!

My rooots are showing, ahhhhhh! I am nervous about dying with my hair falling out? Anyone here dyed their hair soon after post-op with the hair loss? And if so, how did it turn out? I don't want to freak my hairdresser out, lol!

I feel that our stories are very similar. I was banded Feb 17, and I also broke my ankle, but also two other bones in my leg. I know sit here happily casted, and miserable, lol! How is your ankle? As I was recovering in the hospital all I could think was " am I unhealthy because of my rapid weight loss? Scary I know that a fall like I had would have been nothing before, scary! I have also lost several friends including my bestfriend. Amazing how selfish they can be, but if this is how they are guess they were never friends to begin with. I have decided I am going to find God again to help me through all this confusion, I plan on on attending Church this Sunday. I think I will make new friends, better friends that will be a good support. Good luck to you in your injuries, aswell as your band....

I didn't even know I had a hiatal hernia, and my Doctor removed it during my Lap-Band surgery. One of my friends also had it removed during her band surgery. I was told that it is actually very common to have a hiatal hernia removed during band surgery, Something about the location! Only thing different for me was a horrible pain in my shoulders a couple of weeks after surgery that was caused by drinking liquids too fast, needless to say I lived on popsicles! Don't stress it, I am now 4 months post-op, and doing great! Good luck & Best wishes!

My gas pains lasted about 3-4 days! I found that putting a heating pad on my shoulders helped the most. I know how much pain that was1 I remember barely even noticing the pain of my band, just the gas pains. Good Luck, It will all get better from here!

Stormy, I too am dealing with family drama, so I understand, only I am the opposite! I wanna eat! then I get horrible stomach aches! It's an endless battle when it comes to family. Unfortunately all we can do is sit back on the rollercoaster ride. I am gonna try liquids for a couple day, and see if it works, because my tummy is killing me. I will let you know!

Thank you everyone for you replys! I am gonna buy weights, and I think knitting sounds intersting, so I am gonna give it a try, lol! Thanks again for the support!

Holy Camolli!!! 58 pounds in less than 4 months??? I think that is a record. I've never heard of anyone with a band losing that much that fast. Are you sure you didn't have gastric bypass, haha?! That's great. Obviously you should just keep doing whatever you've been doing (what HAVE you been doing?) and try reading books or magazines while you are stuck at home. It's very difficult to eat while you are turning pages, much easier while watching tv- anything to keep those hands busy. Sabrina:) I am not really sure what I am doing differently than all of you thers. I did lose about 10-15 lbs(not sure, because I couldn't weigh myself for a week) in the hospital from not being able to eat, due to the pain killers. Other than that I just do what I have been told, small portions! Also exercise! I have tried reading, which I normally love, but can't seem to concentrate much. I am however gonna go buy weights today.... Thank you for the advice!

I also drink liquid when my food gets stuck. I have found that throwing up is now difficult, sometimes it's just nothing but dry heaves. Honestly, do what works for, I also have heard not to drink liquids when food is stuck, but I also know how panicked I get when it's stuck.. Good luck, hope you find the answers you are looking for

I broke my leg about 3 weeks ago. I still have another 3 to go before I get my cast off. Sitting around all day is leading to a lot of poor eating habits again. I am scheduled for my third fill in 2 weeks. I am scared! I am terrified to weigh myself, I miss working out. Anyone got any ideas on working out from the couch, lol! I am getting desperate. I started out at 233 lbs, and am now 175! This all since Feb 17, I love my weight loss, and band! I don't want to gain it all back, HELP!!!!!! :lb12:

Thanks Lisa! I will try some warm drinks!