THANK YOU CYNDI! (Of all the stupid things for me to do...) Ugh, I had just gotten off of the phone with my 85 y.o. grandma, and we were both saying how sometimes "everybody has bad things happen," and how many "strange things have been happening to us each individually" (and I get off of the phone---and do this!!!)
I'm taking tiny sips of hot tea as we speak...