Hello everyone!
I have had my band for a year now and have lost 100 pounds. I look so different and so much more healthy. But now I am starting to think about "silly" things and I just need some perspective from somebody out there, anyone that might be able to ease my worries. I am young, 21 years old, and I have been dating just like I did before my surgery. Nothing has changed accept me, but I just got to thinking about when I have to tell my boyfriend that I have had lap band surgery. See now I am kind of ashamed that I had to get the surgery to lose the weight and it makes me really self conscious. What will he think when I tell him? Will he think I was such a porker? That I took the easy way out? And there are those scars too! I know to most this may be silly, but it what I worry about. Any advice?