okiecowb

New to this forum and curious about other banders if they rec'd positive support from their spouses? I'm 42 yo male, obese all my adult life but alot the last 10-12 years. Wife is one who can eat more than I and weighs the same since we've been married 16 yrs. She thinks I'm weak and and don't seem to understand at all. We seem to have a stale marriage, we go nowhere anymore, no social life etc. Has anyone experienced this problem and did the lapband procedure and weight loss make improvements to relationships?? I've tried to explain to my wife the health improvements would far more outweigh the negative. CONFUSED-HELP