LCW

On a side note, my inlaws are in town who I hadn't seen since last Sept and of course this is the thinnest they have ever seen me... When they or anyone else I know asks what I have been doing to lose weight I totally down play it and say oh I've been eating less and working out more (both totally true) and then when they ask how much I've lost I always say oh maybe 25-30lbs since Christmas" like I'm not really tracking it.. lol

Maybe I don't want them to do the math and figure out that I was almost 250lbs, or maybe I still feel somewhat ashamed that I had to turn to WLS to get my eating under control, I guess that is why I haven't told anyone but my husband ... I knew the risks and that it was the right choice and I am so glad I did but what the heck is wrong with me that I can't be as free with the people I know and love as I am with all of you (who I also feel like I know and love) it's a mystery!!

I guess that's why I'm so open and happy to share my progress with you all, I am not an exhibitionist or desperate for attention I promise... lol I share my story because it's my only outlet (other than DH) where I can say, look at me I made a tough/drastic choice to improve my health and it's working for me!! I also know how hard it was to make the choice to get banded and that others are in my same shoes everyday and I hope that I can help those who are considering this major life change or who have already done it that it will work for you too!!

Forget about what the rellies might think! This is your journey and only needs to be shared with whom ever you choose. I know i would probably be just as evasive to anyone asking me. When I finally get the surgery.

Thanks everyone for the encouragement I am really trying to get all the $$ and time together to see Dr. Ortiz. I have been trying to getinto a program here in Alberta for 5 years. This seems like it just might be the real thing. Congrats. to all you who are doing so well and sticking with it. Hopefully I'll be there soon.

Most of the posting I have read are from individuals under the age of 50. In fact most seem to be in their 30s. I am 55 and am wondering the success of people in my age range or older who had the band. Is there any hope?

LCW