I know how ya'll feel. Fortunately, my children (19 &11) have been really supportive in my weightloss. My oldest daughter was really excited for me when I decided to have the lapband procedure and has been my rock since the surgery(June 6,2007). She tells me how good I look and how I need to buy new clothes. My youngest daughter is very sympathetic when I get sick if I eat something I shouldn't and she helps me pick out new foods to try. I have tried diet after diet and will have succes for a while, but then I go back to my old habits and gain the weight back plus more. About 6 months ago, I decided I was tired of feeling back and looking bad, I was miserable! I still have a long way to go, but I know that I will make it. I have about 2 years before my oldest daughter gets married and I want to look good for her wedding and I want her to be proud of me. My husband is also supportive, but not as much as my daughters. I went to see my mother in the nursing home the other day and she told me I hadn't lost any weight and it made me feel horrible, but i just took it in stride and continue to work toward my goal weight. Hope your journeys go as well as mine has so far.
Beginning weight:230
Current weight:195
Goal weight:130