I've been away for a while but wanted to respond to your post. I think your sister should hear it from you. It will be better for her to hear it from you than a stranger. You never know, once she's educated with the lap band procedure she might consider it or at least she will know that there are other options out there for future references. You can't stop what people say and what they think. If it worked for you that is what matters. When I get my band, if someone ask I will tell them, if they have a problem with it, that's what it will be their problem. I have to do what is best for me, like you had to do what was best for you. Congrats on your banding, I hope to have mine soon.