I Too had the same situation in April of 2007 and I have given it my all. I get up (still) at 5 am before my 6 kids and go to the gym. Tried changing my eating habits and that worked for about 3 months but continued to work out. My husband was most worried about how we were paying for the surgery. He has watched me work very hard for almost a year and a half. He is now very supportive and finding the OCC saved us half which also made him feel a little better. Just keep your head up and do your best. Keep saving and pour out your heart to him. PS I did lose 6 Lbs and am much firmer so thats good news.