Good Afternoon all,
I had a experience last night that I want to share. I was on speaker phone with a friend long distance to another friend that does not yet know about my lap band because i have not spoken with her when during the middle of the conversation she says, 'arn't you going to tell her about the band?' I said, no, I would tell her when I was ready for her to know. BEFORE my surgery, which was Oct 2nd I thought that i wouldnt tell anyone..feeling kind of like a failure for NOT being able to drop this weight on my own when I am such a strong, independent woman in all other aspects of my life, but as the surgery came closer I thought to myself, how ridiculous that I do not share this with others..thinking it would just be harder to keep such a secret. So, as time drew closer to my surgery..i began to tell people....people I work with, friends, etc. No, not EVERYONE knows, and in MY time maybe they will, but have any of you delt with this before? I was pretty pissed off at my girlfriend for just blurting this out because I feel it is a personal decision as has to come from ME and no one else....anyway, I'm happy that I have shared this experience with the people that do know and as time goes by and the weight starts coming off i'm sure that i'll be more willing to share more liberately. Sherry