HollywoodHairlines

I swear I could've written that myself. I told my husband that he doesn't have to understand WHY it's important to me, he just has to understand that it's important. My husband is one of those very fortunate people that gets sexier the older he gets. He'll never understand. I stopped trying to explain it to him and he stopped bitching about it. He went to my last consultation with me and was able to hear everything the doctor had to say. I think he feels a lot better about it now. In fact he may even be a little excited. He's never known me thin. The cost is definately hard to swallow right now, but I figure now is as good a time as any. So hang in there, do your research and hopefully your husband will come around. If not, well, it's easier to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission. And if it's so bad that he leaves you then at least you are on your way to sexy healthiness and you can find someone else. I hope it doesn't come to that though. It'll work out how it's supposed to.

Thanks for your comment! I thought I was the only one out there for a moment. What was your husband's biggest reservation? Does he have no problem at all with your size? I ask because my husband prefers full figured but not fat women. Sometimes I think about what if I have the surgery and get too small? Will he then no longer attracted to me? But then I have to remind myself why and for who I am doing this, ME. I guess we will just have to find that happy medium.