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  1. Well Hello Lori!! just as you said, couldnt have asked for a better Dr. or staff! Thanks for all your help with all the questions I had. I think between you and Cindy I became a human sponge on the info you shared. We are 12 days post-op and have 9 to go to eat real food again. Lookin forward to that day:). What a long couple of weeks already, and hoping the next week or so will go by faster. heheh Thanks again, Lori, Teri and Kyle
  2. Well Laura, by this time you should be banded. Hope everything went well. Loads of best wishes for a quick recovery. Teri
  3. Hi Kim, Wish we could have talked for a while. It seemed pretty quick when it was time to leave the hospital. Dr. Ortiz is great, isnt he!!!!!!!!!! ---and good looking too, just like patients say. Teri
  4. Hi Kym, What a great experience hunh? You sound as happy as us. We are truly lovin this. Kyle is down already from 225 to 207!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He's back in his last size, and what a difference! Its only been a week today since the surgery. I cant believe we missed the chance to chit chat! Were suppose to go back Dec 15, trying to coordinate rides. If your interested let me know. Good Luck on the Post Diet. It hasnt been bad at all. (so far) Teri
  5. Fear of losing the weightloss battle - author unknown You won't lose the battle if you are willing to work with the band and do your part. But I can almost guarantee: You will have plateaus when you first switch to solids until your body gets used to being fed instead of starved (most likely one-two weeks but could be three like mine.) During many plateaus you will lose inches not pounds and then finally a larger loss. Your loss in the first 30-40 days is a "never to be repeated" experience so enjoy it. Then you begin the long slow journey downward. You will learn the fine art of "PBs" and what causes them for you, it is swallowing air when you eat. Eating too fast....NOT chewing well or too big of a bite. Eating the wrong food for you...and not recognizing the "no longer hungry" after 1/2 cup (satiation) versus an "I WANT TO EAT MORE CAUSE I CAN or IT TASTES GOOD" or I crave it [head hunger]. You will watch your body shrink and will walk a bit taller-literally- and figuratively...start slipping into booths in restaurants. Sit in chairs with arms, stop worrying about how strong the chairs are, not having to ask for an extender belt on airlines. Finding it easier to, and you have more energy to walk/go up stairs. Clean house and do a million other day to day activities. Slip in and out of bath tubs where the water goes all the way around you instead of damming up and it doesn't kill you to stand up from sitting on the floor. Watch the years fall off your face and drivers license picture...got to a restaurant and order an appetizer and still end up with leftovers to take home. Go through doubts and several fills/unfills until you hit the "sweet spot" fill level for you. You will have to stop several times along the way to reassess your eating habits (I could eat certain foods and get away with some cheating a bit quantity wise at 359 and still lose...that had to go at 250). I have also found that I have to keep reminding myself 1/2 cup of solids three times a day--only--and drink my water (1 hour after meals until the next meal but not with meals). Eat protein first...fruit and veggies second, and non-complex carbs last. (Keep the fats, sugars, and non-complex carbs low...still have them but keep them low). And believe it or NOT a plateau that indicates that you need a fill is: 1. No weight loss for four weeks. 2. You are following all the band rules (8 out of 10 of us want to be able to break the rules and still lose figuring if we get a fill it will miraculously start us losing without us having to do our parts). 3. You are hungry an hour after eating (really hungry not cravings) and the 1/2 cup doesn't stay in the band for 2 1/2 to 4 hours. 4. You are drinking 60+ ounces of water a day and not drinking with your meal or for at least an hour after. 5. Once you move from mushy to solids--as much as possible get your nourishment from food that is solid. If you have problems with it sticking in your stoma, try it again chewing it well. Cut it up finer or chew it with other foods to keep it from recombining in your pouch and forming a plug (i.e. potatoes). 6. Try to avoid soups and/or protein drinks if possible (if you are able to eat your protein you will be full longer--some people have tight bands in the morning and can't eat so have a protein drink). 7. Whenever you hit a plateau, keep a diary and log everything, including water, which goes in and measure your 1/2 cup of solids. (Mine grew twice from 1/2 a cup to almost a full cup without noticing). 8. Try weighing in once a week to begin with, not daily. Later move to once every two weeks or once a month. When you are losing slowly, weight fluctuates daily with hydration levels, etc. At least this way you normally will see a loss and not a fluctuation or gain. Yes the loss is smaller but they are down not up. 9. Measure yourself monthly, often you lose inches before you lose pounds. 10. Don't compare yourself to others. We all lose at different rates based on age/metabolism/food choices/activity level...but we can all lose.
  6. I sincerly wish you all the luck with the balloon. As for us, we were looking for permanent weight loss, since the balloon can only be placed in the stomach for 6 months or earlier, then, must be removed, this was not an option for us. We would gain the weight back again in no time.
  7. Oh Becki! I feel so bad for you. I heard of this, and I am sure one day we will have our turn. I talked with "Cassie" and her Mother on the phone yesterday. Cassie was 13 when Dr. Ortiz did her surgery. She has been banded for 2 and 1/2 yrs. and they both stressed to me, she still must chew chew and chew. Cassie said she has the least amount of food at lunch and she is always the last one done. She also said the bready type stuff, because it kinda rolls into a ball, doesnt go down well. A burrito is kinda soft and may do the same thing. She also said she has a hard time with chicken too. Oh, I hope your ok and that that does not happen again. Teri
  8. Thank you Becki for your well wishes! Yes, so far it seems easy to stick to the liquids. Just 1/2 cup and you are stuffed! I love it! Now, 2 weeks down the road could be trouble. But am determined. Your progress is wonderful and I love reading all your posts! Teri
  9. :) Our experience was fantastic! It has been 4 days since our surgery. Dr. Ortiz is wonderful! We were scared to death (literally) of going to TJ MX. And 17,000 for the both of us was lots of $. Thank God, I have a wonderful, kind, generous hubby! I hate to sound selfish, but our health, mind set, and feeling and looking good about our body image is worth it. I have been a yo yo struggler my whole life, only to keep gaining at 48yrs old. I know I dont have as much to lose as some folks, but the never ending struggle with food is the same. Kyle was following in my path at only 15yrs old. I started at 185, 5'3" and Kyle 225 at 5'5". We both averaged about 77.5 body fat. Thats ALOT. After researching 24/7 almost constantly anyway, we followed all the preop stuff to begin a new and healthy life. My biggest concern was being able to stick to the liquid stage afterward. I mean, come on, we are eaters and that is our favorite thing to do! Pitafull, I know, BUT LIQUIDS for 21 DAYS! It was TOUGH ENOUGH sticking to the slim fast and a lean cuisine. As luck would have it, My B-day, Oct 26, and Anniv Oct 27! fell into the preop diet. So very tough. I cheated a little. We flew into SAN. on Oct. 31, Halloween, and I passed out candy eyeballs, how lame, but fun. LOL (I think it was a way to keep my mind off of what was going to happen). We were met by a chaffeur, Fransico, drove threw rush hour traffic and took about an hour to get to the Lucenera Hotel. The security was GREAT there, and everyone friendly. We were shown our room, ate at the MX rest. (good) cheated again. Back to room, fell asleep nervously, woke up and met Mrs. Ortiz in the lobby. She drove us to the Clinic (Bev Hills style). We checked in, saw Dr. Miranda (she went over the diet post-op) we were weighed, etc. they drew blood, (Kyle almost passed out & about 4 nurses, Dr's. came rushing, laid him down, etc.) very comforting. Next we saw the cardiologist, took a breathing test, EKG, passed everything and were ready for surgery. They gave us 2 pills to relax us (which they did very nicely). Dr. Ortiz came in and was so funny & made you feel at ease. Talked about how weight is everything, along with being healthy. YES it is!! and he said, Kyle, today your life will change! For the better. He told Kyle to follow the rules for a couple of months, and then he said, Kyle were MANLY MEN, we eat hamb. pizza and eat MEN things, like WOOD and BARK (LOL) and after 2 months I dont care what you eat, eat anything! (Dr. Miranda might have been....a little shocked.) He said teens are the best patients, and he will lose. Kyle loved Dr. Ortiz & the nurses loved Kyle like there own son, then Kyle went back to his room, (he was having surgery 1st) I fell asleep, and was awoken by the nurse. Kyle had been banded already, I walked in to see him, he mummbled some things, then I walked to O. R. and dont remember anything until I awoke and I was banded. Then we were encouraged to walk. Surprisingly, no pain, but we were given pain med. We were up and using the computers, called home, all the calls home were free. Stayed overnight, the beds were very comfortable, flat screen TV's with more channels then you can imagine. The service was impeccable. The nurses gave us popsicles, chicken broth, etc. Continued to take Blood Pressure, etc. We were discharged the next morning. Another driver drove us back to the Hotel, for lunch we sipped chicken broth 1/2 cup and were stuffed! (Thanksgiving Stuffed) the same for the O.J. for breakfast the next morning. We took a taxi to the Mall, walked around, bought some things. Back at the Hotel we had a Mom & Son laugh & cry. Talked about how painful it has been that kids will be kids with the teasing of fat kids & how fabulous it is that it will soon be behind him. Kids can be ruthless, and even though you have the ability to laugh it off, the hurt lingers. Great Bonding Time. (He kept this all inside, I didn't know how this effected him) since he knows how to "give it back" Watched the tube, went to sleep, had breakfast (the OJ). Kelly whom we were banded with the same day, rang our room to meet her and her husband in the rest. We talked for an hour or so, exchanged email and the driver was there to take us back across the border to the Airport. Flew home, and we literally cannot stop laughing from how full we feel. After drinking that O.J. 1/2 cup, at 7a.m. we were stuffed until 5pm. YA WHO. I dont want to get to "cocky", just want to enjoy the wonderful feeling's we are feeling. I can already see a difference in Kyle's attitude about his weight, He put on a T-shirt he hasnt worn since last year, (a tight muscle T) and He was smiling from ear to ear, and so was I. Apologies for the length, but this was our experience on being banded. He is down to 210 and I am down to 175. He lost 10lbs pre-opt and I lost 8lbs. Were just a little tender but no pain. We LOVED this experience together, and for anyone considering MX. and Dr. Ortiz, it was far more then what I was expecting, and I had high expectations before going.! If your questioning TJ, MX, your probably going to be jumping out of your skin, like me, but not to worry! So, signing off, JOYFUL in AZ! Teri and Kyle PS. Wishing EVERYONE the BEST with whatever you decide!
  10. Kym, So sorry to have missed you. I was leaving the clinic in the lobby and they said you were just admitted. There was someone in the lobby, (4 people) one being banded as well, was that you sabledog? I was kinda in a daze, I was with Kyle my son. Let me know, How was your surgery? A Breeze I hope!! I would like to know how it went for you. Teri
  11. LOL too! I think I'm still drugged from the surgery! I use to work at a Pharmacy 25 yrs ago too. I knew that, but still in a daze at that time I think. LOL. ENJOY your trip to DisneyLand, we've always had so many great memories together there, although we usually go to DisneyWorld in FL, cuz its where the In-laws live. Almost time for YOU to eat REAL food!! you gotta love it. Teri Thanks Chelley!! I read ALL of your posts sometimes over and over, so glad you are still posting. I am a gum chewer, always have been, and was freaking myself out over swallowing it. I am soooooooo glad you are doing well at losing again. It had to have been frustrating, especially seeing your Mom and sister losing. But you ARE on the Right track. My son Kyle at 15, is a kid and Dr. Oritz said he would lose a lot faster then me, and thats ok as long as I lose. Hmm, the flu shot, I never had one before, just always shrugged it off, but I will check into it for sure now. Thanks so much, Chelley, KEEP UP THE AWESOME LOSING! I love it!
  12. Thank you so much!!!!!!!!! It is the GREATEST feeling in the world to be FULL. I am SO HAPPY! I just know this was the PERFECT descision for me and Kyle. It's still totally unbelievable. I laugh constantly! Teri
  13. Thanks for the info Marc! I will try and stay away from people who I know are "sick" since the flu season is around the corner. Teri Thanks Mary! Is RX a prescription for nausea? Is there a brand name over the counter, or do you need a prescription, if so, do you have the name of the medicine, so I can keep it on hand? Thanks, I hope your doing well! I like reading your posts. Teri
  14. Hi mtred, While I can only speak for myself, very newly banded! (NOV 1) the decision for me and my son was about Dr. Ortiz being a "proctor" meaning he has educated surgeons in the U.S. (MI, WA, TX, IL, LO, MN) He is also American Board Certified. The U.S. would not band us. As far "as another money maker", I have spent thousands of dollars on fad diets, LA, WW, diet pills, SB, At, etc. losing, but unable to keep the weight off. I have to say I was hopefull instead of desperate. Only time will tell, but for me it sounds promising. Since I go to the Dentist in MX. (crowns $150, for perfection) I knew we would have better quality care by Dr. Ortiz's team from all the research! Our experience was the finest, with sanitation and hygiene first class! Good Luck on any desicision you choose or any route you follow. Teri
  15. Hi Cindy, Well are back and banded. And you can add Kelly to your list. We were banded with her on Nov 1. She is from CA. She said she is going to get on the web. She is already a registered user. I'll have to get her user name. I have it. Thinks are going great. I can believe how full Kyle and I were on a 1/2 cup of o.j. for breakfast and still stuffed at dinner. haha what an awesome feeling. Teri hah
  16. I Everyone! I was just wondering, I am leaving for the airport in about 1/2 hour to hopefully become banded Nov 1, with my son who is 15. (Dr. Ortiz) Questions keep coming up, but the one that I was wondering about was: What if you get the flu or swallow gum? During the critical healing process, it wouldnt be good. Has anyone had this happen? Thanks Everyone! Good Luck to you ALL! Teri
  17. Well, here goes!!!!! Kyle and I leave for the airport in 45 minutes. I will talk with you when we are back and hopefully banded! Enjoy the rest of the week. Teri
  18. Hi Sabledog, I will probably see you the next day!!! My son and I are having the surgery Nov 1, and we stay overnight so we might run into you. I am from AZ also (Gold Canyon) by the Superstition Mts, Where in AZ do you live? Good Luck, I am sooooooooooooo excited and nervous. Teri
  19. Hi Cindy, Thought I'd pop in AZ catagory to see how you are doing? I will call you before we leave. I hope you are doing ok still. I have been a non stop researcher, practically 24/7. I'm having so many pains in my stomach area just from thinking thinking thinking about going through the experience. YIKES. Talk to you soon. Teri
  20. Wavin Hello to Everyone!! Both my son (15) and myself will be having surgery on Nov 1, flying in Oct 31. Dr. Ortiez will be doing the surgery. Lori is a doll to talk with! I couldn't believe it, while researching I found Cindy-from-AZ who just had her surgery Oct 16th!!! (my daughter use to babysit for her kids). We live about a mile apart!!! I called her and was sooooooooo relieved. I have major butterflies and very nervous, but excited too. She has been a huge support and very knowledgeable. Thank you Cindy, if you read this!!!!!! Your a doll too! and happy losing! Teri
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