Hi There,
I have to agrree with both Sue and Tamara and also add my 2 cents worth.
You are an audlt....you owe no one but yourself an explanation for doing what you want to do (unless you have a husband)
I have been overwieght all my life and my mother (who is not alive, died 6 yrs ago ) was the most critical person about my weight my entire life. I know though now if she were alive today and could see my success she would be so proud. She watched me struggle over the years with every diet under the sun. She did come to terms before she died that obesity was a disease, both my brother father and I are all obese where she was as skinny as a twig, just as we came to terms that her diabetes was a disease, I spent many a nights trying to explain to her that obesity is a disease just like her diabetes was. She finally understood it.
You need to do what is best for you and do not let anyone change your mind. If you are not happy in your life..no on around you in your life will be happy either. I know this first hand. My family suffered at the hands of my obesity. I did not want to go out, have firends over, take my kids places etc..etc..NOW 3 months later I'm like a butterfly released from her cocoon. I have a new leash on life, my kids are so happy , my hubby is happy , my life and my families life has truly changed! I LOVE MY BAND!!!
DO IT ,
Michelle
4.6.04
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