Nita I have a lot of the same issues, however I have been able to work through some of these issues.
First I had to come to grips with the fact that the only reason I have a VG band is that I required it; that's life, my stomach is not only large in diameter but has a large accumulation of fat around it and the other band would not even fit. I had to except it and move on, although the large diameter might explain why I do not have supposed (will power), a term I detest.
I could very well be wrong but this is what I have come to believe happens with the VG Band.
1. Fat is more plyable than stomach tissue the VG being wrapped around a large amount of fat and stomach tissue gives the ability to force food passed restriction.
2. Fat molecules keep alot of water around them in order to survive. I take this to mean dehydration = less restriction. find a way to keep yourself consistantly
hydrated.
3. Fat loss happens at different rates in different parts of the body. I.E. This week lost a small amount of fat around the band and a large amount from leg my and
restriction is still good . Next week who knows maybe all the fat loss is around the band area causing less restriction and time for another fill.
4. My biggest weight losses have come after I got over 6 cc of fill. I found that after approx 15lbs of lost weight it is time to schedule my next fill.
5. Make a list of which foods go down easy, get stuck, and give you that boy I am already Full ?!? Feeling. Try to stick with boy I am already full?!?
These things have helped me I hope they can do the same for You.
JC