Hi Destinie,
Wow !!! Your life is going to change so much. Stay on the message board for any help you need. There are great people on here. Also for many young teens it is harder mentally because this is a change and this is hard work. I know you can do it. It sounds like you are ready. I like where JME says ONLY one can decide. When we where on the Orpah show and Dr. Oz said Cassie was too young to make that decision, she really wasn't. She could of said I just want to wait, or No I don't want the surgery. At 13 you still have a voice.
Total Honesty, Adults have been through the YOYO weight issues a lot longer then teens so mentally they are truly ready for their journey. If you are a strong person you will go through this a lot more easier then those who are not ready and more emotionally dependant on others. Your strength for this must come first from yourself and then support from family and the forum. It is a life change. You eat to live not live to eat. Remember that !! Also everyone is different when going through surgery. Like breast implants, nose jobs, everyone has a different tollerance and a healing time.
Also, enjoy all the comments and glory coming your way. You will deserve it ! People will sometimes think (the skinny people) it is the easy way out but you tell them to loose 10 pounds and see if they can do it. No one realizes how hard it is to diet. If your mom needs any help please call me. Send a message to my inbox and I will send you my phone number. Your family will need support as well. Cassie has been a sucess since 2004 of March. She is wrapping up school right now and has not been on the forum as much. So if you need anything drop me a line and I can get it to Cassie or I can try to help.
Take Care,