Hi Lisa,
I haven't been banded yet but I wanted you to know that I am here and I care very much - we all do.
I was depressed last week due to my postponed surgery. It took me a few days to call out for help. When I did, I received wonderful support and my mood turned right around. If all goes well, I will be banded on the 25th. Your fill will happen too. When it must happen, it will. In the meantime, keep trying to voice your feelings. We are here to support you.