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CONGRATULATIONS. 250 Thats a nice number to reach. Go Girl!!

Looks like we have a lot in common. I brought up the subject with my husband last fall and had pretty much the same reaction. I almost had the surgery then but he talked me out of it. Just think I would be close to my goal weight if I had gone through with the surgery then. He also has never had a problem with his weight and looks great. I have heard about my weight problems from him for the last 12 years when I started putting on weight. So, it behoves me why he can not support me in this journey. He just dose not understand and says all I have to do is eat less and exercise more. Of course I know that, I am a nurse for goodness sake. I still struggle with my weight all the time. Oh well I will never make him understand or have his blessing. I need to take care of my health. I am going to be banded on July 14th for myself and not for anyone else. I do have a good support group of friends behind me in this endeavor. I wish you all the best. I am glad for this forum so we can support each other.