The only person who knows that I am going to have the surgery is my husband. I haven't even told my best friend that I am going to have it done. I talked about having it done and she told me how dangerous it was and that I didn't need to have it. I want to tell my mom, but she will be TOTALLY AGAINST going to MEXICO to have surgery. I'm not telling any of my co-workers because I don't want the question, "How much have you lost so far?" all the time. My brother-in-law lives in CA, so my hubby and I are telling everyone that we are going out there to see him (they don't know he lives about 5 hours from where we will be).