I'm too new, I haven't yet had a fill either. Since I'm self pay and have had to find the way forward with Drs who will take me, I can tell you that you can do it, too.
You need to find a Dr in NC, SC or GA (depending where in NC you are) that will take you with fluoro, save up $250 and go.
If everything is getting stuck, then your health is at risk.
Good luck finding a new job. Losing the old one sucks, no question. Going forward without band insurance isn't the end of the world.
You were brave enough to get banded. You jumped thru the hoops. You lost over 50 pounds. You're also brave enough to find a way forward.