I told a few people before I went and my family. Now, most of my fellow teachers know. They could not be more supportive of me. I started seeing a guy and told him..I figure if it was going to work we both had to be honest...he actually called me for the first time while I was in TJ. He just asked a few questions and asks whether a fill is considered surgery....so all in all I am very glad I have told people.....