Hi, my name's Anita, and I'm from Vancouver BC Canada. I'm 45, and have two wonderful boys ages 15 & 12. I am in the financial industry. I have been overweight since I was about 8 yrs old. Was always made fun of in school. Always found a way to get out of taking gym, as I couldn't run or do much of anything. Probably why I have been overweight for so long? I have been divorced for 10 yrs, and have been on my own since, and as much as I know I have a great personality, some guys just can't look past the "weight" and give you a chance. For the past 5 yrs I have been saying "I am what I am, and I WILL meet a guy who loves me for what/who I am. Both outside and inside. However, I now feel differently. I have decided to get banded as I want to live a healthier lifestyle, and of course, to hopefully meet someone. I'm not getting any younger, and I'm scared of disease's associated with being overweight. I love the sun and everything to do with it. Mexico, suntanning, ice cold beer, golfing, camping, and am also a dragonboat paddler. If you're looking for me at the hotel, just check the pool, you'll probably find me there! I have been reluctant to put my picture on, as I have not told many people that I am doing this. I may remove it in a day or two, but wanted you all to see what I look like. HOORAY! I got my pic on my profile, but how the hell do I get it under my name on the left hand side??