I also want to add - that the meds they give you before hand the anti-anxiety meds...well, I remember nothing lol...seriously I dont even remember going into the OR - nothing, zero nada- so I am happy with that!
Also - I am the same with how we sleep with our hubbys. Last week so about 6 weeks after surgery I can now lye on my left side. I feel completely normal now - I can do everything I could before now. Except this damn cold grrrr makes me tired. I had my first fill saturday.
Seriously - after the surgery you are going to wonder why you worried so much! I was the same way. I had six other surgeries and was still just as nervous as the first....but its a lot easier than you are probably working yourself up for!